Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-35284508-20180417160128/@comment-35319541-20180419055007

It is so kind of you to share such a paiful story. I find sometimes just gettin it out helps, but I don't reaally do that except with my mom and sister, although I have to be careful cause you know moms. I now have to decide which son stays because my youngest was going to move back home and gave up his appt but my oldest made it "h.. on wheels" when he was moving his stuff back in. . Somehow a fire extinguisher got tripped off and now the house is covered with dust (just love cleaning it up tho not even started that mess-emersed myself here today in game heaven!) So my youngest gave me an altimatim-him or me and "I have nowhere else to go" ...., and the oldest replied I am trying to get clean and I am working as well as you and "I have nowhere else to go" blah blah blah, guess this will not end well, as my youngest and I have not gotten along well since he was in the 8th grade. My oldest is a big help around the house if he can just keep it sober. I told the oldest this is the last straw, one more incident and you are on a fast bus to anywhere but here. If I have to do it, it will make the 3rd time I have kicked him out so he knows I mean business. But I dont blame the youngest either I do not want to live thru another nite like the other. So I guess the youngest has to decide for himself cause I do not take well to being told by a 21 year old how to live my life in my house and who can and can't be here.

Oh, my there I go again. Sooo sorry.

I wave my magic wand and all is well in SN and Wiki world! yea.

I feel so bad you cannot visit with your grandchild. MY youngest grnddaughter lives next door, and although she is only a year and 4 mo. she tells her mom by saying grma and wiggling her fingers as her way of saying "give it to me" meaning!" She wont bring her here cause she does not want her exposed to the drunken stupidity. So, at least we have a good relationship at the moment. She is a good mom and it is the oldest brother who is the AA.

my daughter asked me when she was 7 why I thought God gave me a daughter. I said "cause he knew I would need a nurse" she has seen me thru 8-9 surgeries since she was 4 years old and had to put my pants, shoes and socks on for me cause I had a back fusion and could not reach my feet. Sad huh, my boys say I favor her, well no wonder, where were they-My oldest in Japan in the Navy, my youngest moved out and in his own life, the youngest only 3. Life gives us a bunch of road blocks and pot holes but somehow God gives us the strength to endure. And I did it almost all as a single mom too. But hey, the women in my family were extremely great examples of a woman/mother/fill in father (though I had one, he worked alot) and to take not sht from anyone, only right now I take it from my own, but not much longer. They are grown and need to figure it out like I did.. life is a bowl full of fun in the sun eh! God bless you all and keep on a truckin' xoxo lola

ps I have sent some of you a corny but message in your gifts today-chocolate bars-cause they mean love, a heart the same, so maybe I sent you a double meaning gift, I sure hope I had enought to do that. IF not I send it now.

Thanks again everyone your messages here and on the board have been a real pick me up.