Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-37615991-20190217172443/@comment-37615991-20190221124922

Spockmum wrote:

When I accept gifts, I usually click the 'accept and thank' everyone at once. Does that account for the thousands of fixers being gifted? Do you accept each gift individually and return a similar gift? (I'm not just being lazy but your comment made me think about how gifting actually works!) I learned from this forum to sort out the thank you gifts from actual gifts. In the gift window, there is a search box on the lower left. Type in ran and you'll see all of the thank you gifts. I usually scroll through these quickly and then hit accept all.

This morning from one 200+ level player I received 10 tar, at least 15 pendants, 10 scales, plus something else I didn't count. Other days I've gotten tar, resin, fluff, etc. in quantity. This person is clearly spending a lot of time TTing. I expect I'll have more gifts this afternoon from them. I truly am grateful for the effort. They are being extremely generous with their time and effort.

I firmly believe everyone should be able to play the way that they enjoy. It took a long time for me to realize that applies to me as well and to give myself permission to do that by editing my friends list. But it felt rude to just drop someone who is doing everything they know to do to be a good friend. I figured if they TT, they might be on the forum. I've searched forum names, but didn't find them to post a note on their wall.