Thread:ParisPC/@comment-31615118-20181025001631/@comment-35196587-20181025160019

Diana, believe me, I am very appreciative of what you do here. It is not an easy task, so know what I am about to say is because of my love for this community and the people here.

I only met Paris a couple weeks ago, and while I think she’s a pretty great person based on her humor and contributions, my asking for the thread to be completely locked down had nothing to do with our new friendship. It also had nothing to do with me asking the question on the profanity thread—I asked that because when I was dinged for profanity, the other admin gave me a warning, and asked me to edit. A one week banning without a warning seemed extreme, considering even facebook’s first “ban” is only 24 hours.

You gave a “one week cool down” to a single person while the others involved get to carry on. So while I get the need to crack down on profane words, it should be noted some antagonistic behaviours are much more detrimental to a community than a curse word.

I do know your role is a tough one. And again, I appreciate what you do. But I am sad seeing Paris asking to be deleted over what seems to be a dire miscommunication.