Thread:Baja Sunshine/@comment-34343471-20191014020736/@comment-44076733-20191014031927

Hi Opal,

thank you for reaching out to me! I am sorry too if I came across as a troublemaker or bully because nothing could be further from the truth.

When I stumbled over the remarks that caused all this trouble I was also right in the middle of the messy update situation hence frustrated. Having somebody else judging whether or whether not it is important to have lost out on precious play time was therefore beyond annoying to me. At first I wasn't sure if I feel like saying anything but I couldn't get it out of my head so I just went for it. With my post I tried to make others understand that we are all real people with real feelings and different ways of playing the game.

I knew that with my last sentence I would provoke a certain reaction. Maybe it was rather harsh but in the end I didn't find it any harsher than directly addressing somebody asking why she thinks it is important that she is two days behind and that they don't see it. Sometimes people only understand and see what they have done when they get a bit of there own medicine. That's why I still find that it was good that it was done publicly as it made others aware of it too. And I am sure that a few people will think twice now before they post anything as offensive as that. For me, if it saves just one more person from remarks like that I consider it mission accomplished. Therefore I would do it again any time. After all, not everybody is able to speak up for themselves so we should keep it kind and show compassion instead of ignorance.

I am well aware too that english is not my native language and although I am pretty confident with the english language it might still make a difference every now and then.

So again my apologies if I caused you a headache there but I can guarantee you that I didn't mean to cause any harm!

Baja