Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-40264639-20190915152203/@comment-34343471-20190915200518

If any friend is stressing you out, DELETE them. I wouldn't worry about what their intent is. People play this game in different ways. Their visiting and gifting style might not be compatible with yours. I used to be hurt when other players deleted me, now I just understand that my gifting/visiting style wasn't working for them. Some players only want other TT players on their friends list. Other players play regularly but not every day and don't wish to stress over gifting/visiting. Some players keep spreadsheets which track what gifts they have received and given. I have some higher level players in the 200's who still send me string every day. As long as a player is active or has a note in their game name that they will be back, I keep them on my friends list. I only pay attention to talents when I want to hire a player. Other than that, I don't keep track of what talents my friends have. I am just happy that my friends visit and gift. It is just a game and I want to enjoy it.