Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-40112086-20190812173611/@comment-35508590-20190813063327

Don’t be sad Kat.

Let me add something to negative (=No...) name tags at this point.

When I finally found wiki friends, I was also "NoString" or "NoTarPls", now sometimes I'm "NoCIsPlz". It makes me laugh when I see the difference. Anyway, it didn’t help back then and sometimes it doesn’t help now. At that time I wished for some friends not to send me something like string or tar because I really needed other things. I finally deleted them all and now I just want to tell my friends that I might miss CIs, but they still send them sometimes. I will not delete these friends.

As Deb suggested, this person it’s possible not want to be flooded with passes for whatever reason. If it is a second game, that player should be able to customize his FL to his needs. If he wants to keep you, Amy, he could send you ingame his ID for his main game. Since this player is able to say what he doesn’t want, he is sure to be able to say what he wants. So all that remains is the statement that he does not appreciate your gifts.

Maybe he wants his friends to change, so now it’s your decision if you want that. If you have the time and inclination, you could also test if it's really just the kind of gifts he doesn’t want. Get him to the top of your FL with a star and don’t send him TT gifts or send a fixer to him first and a pass to the rest of your friends. I would expect other nameplates in the TYs, if not it's a little scanty communication.

For me it is so, I usually don’t have the time to consider all individual wishes, It would burn me out and take the joy of the game. So I send mostly to everyone, what I think is right, passes, fixers or CIs if I want and that as much and as often as I want. If someone doesn’t like that, then he can hit the X for me, no problem.