Thread:ImLola/@comment-35240436-20180728165429/@comment-35319541-20180731043803

Uni, good for you!!! Small tricks do seem to get the message across! I used to put the bathroom trash can on my daughter's bed when it was that time of the month and she wouldn't take it out, let the smell get in her room, lol. wow did that work, she was so mad that her room stunk!!! I said, well I don't like to gag on the smell in the bathroom either, so there you go... and she took it out, yey!!

14 years and no support, wow, that was wicked hard.. have you applied for aid?? It is not shameful to have to take it-believe me yours and my tax dollars helped give way too many people aid not to take some if for ourselves. and with you being in school, you might just get a good bit of help??

Yeah, I had to use food stamps, medical cards, food banks, all because the kids dad didn't think he had any financial responsibility to the kids for 9 years, kept switching jobs to get out of paying. then after 5 years he finally gave up and then we got the support, only he thought the kids were to get it all to waste away, another long battle with that one too. Some men just don't get what support pays for, told him to look on teh web and find out what it takes to support a kid, let alonte two.

Sounds like you will all deserve that ice cream treat after all that work, best of luck to you with the support, I will keep my fingers and toes crossed for sure.

I too am thinking of cutting a few friends, just so hard, not that they are bad friends, just time does not allow keeping all of them, and doing right by them, visiting takes me an hour with 85 friends, I have not been keeping up with my daily visits. more on that later on a separte thread. but wow, when you just don't get anything back, it is not worth all the extra time it takes to keep  them.

You will be very safe for sure!!!

hugs lola