Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-34343471-20191023155003/@comment-43672997-20191023185731

JeanieBon wrote: Dispiriting - That's a great word to describe the feeling Opal. I also feel that when I see No in name tags. I so much prefer something like AnyPassPls to NoFixers. I am more than happy to spend time going through wishlists multiple times to give friends what they actually do want, in addition to also sending multiples of different access passes to friends with named requests, but I don't want to also have to scroll through 70 plus friends to prevent them receiving something I'm sending to everyone (I never send fixers to everyone).

I also think it's only reasonable that if someone is not able to empty their gift box, because of being busy or on holiday, they should delete their wishlists. It doesn't matter if passes or fixers are lost. You spoke my mind better than I could have. The game is not a day-job. It's supposed to be an escape from all the stressful stuff of real life, and with so much going on like quests, visits, events... I think friends should add to the fun, not become bothersome. I love gifting, but there's no way I'm going to waste time browsing over 160 players to find the one who doesn't want passes or fixers. I do browse my list to find the ones requesting things, and I give them a star to climb higher on the list, but I can't predict who is not going to get stuff.