Thread:Bellatrix SN/@comment-39170536-20190617153730/@comment-38243694-20190617201104

@LiSaLo Is this a new thing on Wiki? Hijacking conversations?

No, Madlen, we didn't talk to each other before (if we don't count that one time you kinda made me feel like a moron after a comment I've posted on the General D. B. about the possible meaning of an abbreviation). But I think most of the players, who visit this Wiki know who you are. I mean, it would be really hard not to notice you. We even have some friends in common (I see shoutouts with your name). And everyone raves about you (not just the german speaking community). You are the one who sends all the CIs from WLs plus just random full collections.

I didn't part ways with Amalia because of you (that would imply I would have to delete 10+ other friends too), that was just a side note (now I regret making it). You basically make up for like 10 friends alone, so losing one friend (particularly me), can't even be noticed in the long run.

My main point was: I can't play SN all day, so can't really TT multiple times a day (occasionally can't even do it once). I'm still struggling to choose the right time, so that my Australian friends can receive something from me too (sometimes it sucks to live in the middle of Europe). I felt overwhelmed with the huge amount of passes Amalia sent more than once a day. I just can't keep up with that. Haven't got the time, nor the energy. And it makes ME feel impotent, and a BAD friend to her. I can't just receive a gift, without giving back something of similar value in return.

Yes, having friends IS a very important aspect of SN. But playing styles can be very different. They can also change over time. When that happens, you might need to adjust your FL. I now, because I've been dropped before too. And I don't question it. Some things just don't work out, like RL relationships.

I am a 100% sure, that you have parted ways with friends too in the past/present. Can't imagine strangers visiting your Wall telling you to validate, then reconsider your decision.