Thread:ImLola/@comment-35564866-20180512163257/@comment-35319541-20180512182911

Oh Emma I have been in your shoes as well. There are many topics on who and what makes a good friend, the reasons for keeping sleepers, just about any question you might have on the topic can be found someone's post. I would first suggest to maybe start a sheet of paper with all the friends you have, 300 wow, you must be getting lost in the shuffle. I only kept as many friends as the number of gifts you are allowed to send. If you go to guides up above then to friends, it explains what level, and how many friends you can visit. It is totally you decision, but I have cut mine down to under 100 even though I can officially visit 100, which is why some keep the sleepers, to get the added benefits.

After you list all 300, note who is sleeping, who visits, gifts, sends CIs or whatever it is you would like from those friends and start weeding them out before you change devices if you can.

I agree, not all who post on here give you want you want even though they say they will. And that is ok if it is mutual. But if a friend is not kind enough to send a thank you for your efforts again, is that truly a friend? If not on one's end click x on your friend list. Sometimes it is hard to delete a friend and other times, well, just saying.

If you would like any other information., I'd be glad to help.

Aileen is a great friend to have. You do know how to do a random Thank you right, if you do, that gets all the blue boxes out of the way, then scroll thru your list, if you have just fixers and passes, hit accept all and send thank you key, most of the posts I see say it now functions correctly and sends a thank you for each gift you received.

Only send a CI or collection if you do not need it. I have many generous friends and if you have nothing from my WL it is totally fine. If you find you know someone who might appreciate what you do have, and you can send it, then by paying it forward also counts in my book.