Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-35319541-20180417223906/@comment-35315474-20180419022335

CjhJune1973inTX wrote: I've started noticing some people towards the end of my list that their WL never changes, even over 3 to 4 months. I have given them probably six of the same item off their wishlist. The only thing is occasionally, like once every 2 or 3 months they will visit or send a single gift like yarn or something. Do you think I should remove them? I almost wonder if they are staying active just enough to get rep points. Any thoughts? I would hate to delete someone for the wrong reason. Thx for your help guys Cheers Christie Christie, there is no right or wrong reason to add a new friend or delete an existing one. Just keep in mind that there are hundreds of thousands (and probably millions) of players all over. You are not responsible for maintaining anyone on your friends list that does not increase your enjoyment of the game.

My basic rule is this: If when I see their name, I smile, they're a keeper. If I feel frustrated or unhappy upon seeing them, then I'm letting them go. I try to give each friend an honest chance to work out, but if they're just taking up space in my friends list, there really is no point to keeping them there.

So, basically, ditto to what Lola said. Follow your gut instinct. Just remember it is not your job to keep anyone on your friends list. There are lots and lots of other players they can add to their list to replace you; friends who are perfectly happy with their playing habits.