Thread:LiSaLo/@comment-33745381-20190826195723

I know you have some very strong views, and it makes it fun to read some of your posts. I'm a lawyer who is a litigator so I can appreciate the way you refuse to drop an argument! However, you have hurt my friend O. I am aware we are all only virtual friends but that doesn't mean we can't have real feelings. Many of us on this site have all sorts of personal problems and here is the only place we can express ourselves. You may also have your issues, but you are clever, well spoken and very highly ranked on this wiki. You may disagree with O, or think O's views don't stand up to scrutiny, but perhaps you could be kinder in how you approach your arguments? As a litigator, I never find it necessary to use sledgehammer to crack a nut.

If you had said the same to me, it would not have bothered me. I am a pretty tough cookie but not everyone is. I hope you might believe in kindness enough to reach out to O. Best Ruth 