Thread:Wanda56/@comment-34622140-20180609184042/@comment-35404353-20180610153826

Beazus (surely not your real mane),

What I was trying to say, obviously not very clearly was my criteria for a good friend is someone who accepts their gifts daily. All my wiki friends do that so far - vacation time will change that but I don't think its a problem with wiki friends.

I have about 20+ old random Mytona friends and if they don't accept gifts daily my gifts don't go into cyberspace as they probably would for wiki friends because these friends only have one TTing friend. So when they get round to accepting the 500 or less gifts in their box sometimes 250 - 350 of them are from me and all the TYs come back together and if I'm not playing at the time they fill my box. I don't think it can ever happen with a wiki friend because we all have so many TTing friends that even if they accept 500 gifts in one go (which I do at least one a day sometimes 2 or 3 times) No one friend is going to get the bulk of those TYs. I'm gradually cutting back on the Mytona friends but they don't message that they are away and its more trouble than I'm prepared to go to to pick them all out and untick them from the send all. So about one a week I get a huge batch from one person and wonder what bounced out of the my box.

I'll gradually fix it I mostly have wiki friends now and I'm getting my numbers down - I'm aiming at no more than 10 non wiki friends and I hope there won't be a problem then. I'm at 75 friends at the moment and I like the CIs from the visits but I can only cope with the TYs from just over 2200 ish gifts sent a day. So if I want to send more then I need as high a proportion as possible of daily players. It all sounds very analytical but really I'm doing it by trial and error.

Yes I'm in England about 50 miles north of London - I used to commute every day which was hell but the high salary allowed me to retire at 55 so not all bad.

Wanda