Thread:LiSaLo/@comment-35379880-20181024192629/@comment-35508590-20181026190251

Hello dear friends,

I wanted to reply earlier but could only upload the gif and leave no message.

The last days have been stormy and it's been cold, both in the wiki and in the real world. I saw the further course of this stupid thread, but I just did not want to waste another word on that person and I wanted this thread to finally stop and be buried by others. (I know that "underchilled" is not an existing word, but it took me overcoming myself to answer this brainless Wiki member in this thread, also because I wanted to help her. So just something strange comes out of it and I did not want to edit it, because edited and deleted posts are so easy to restore. BTW I think she can only be satisfied with herself if she wanted to appear as an idiot. Really no reason for me to annoy about someone who enthusiastically criticized me, about lack of my language skills. She finally said, that she did not want anything, and for me she is become to a nobody with this.)

This thread has led to a very unpleasant group dynamics and I would most like to have said to most: "Please, calm down!" But it is not my way of telling others what they should do IMO, if at all, then a trend-setting question or a friendly suggestion. So I thought, why not just say to FU: "Thanks, there are cheaters, so it could have been like that." and then let it die, no matter what we think about it. If some are so worried or emotional for whatever reason, that might have been a good option. Well, too late unfortunately. Geez, what a fragile and frothy place this wiki can be when some people start to see ghosts! Slowly, I begin to understand why some are withdrawing. But maybe it's also because of my limited English language skills that I was so misunderstood. Unfortunately, nothing that I could change overnight. *big sigh*

I have lost friends, but what really saddens me is the current atmosphere here. Some prefer to feel criticized, others are afraid to be criticized and someones reacted overly or are confused and retreat. I'm still too new here, maybe that's something that happens regularly or I'm just a bit too optimistic and naive, but I really hope things calm down here. I'm not a big addition to this wiki, but here I found many great friends, helpful tips, and some laughs. It would be a shame not to come here with pleasure anymore.

Anyway, your encouragement and friendship mean a lot to me! I certainly have no heart of ice (it's rather the opposite, fire is my element) - I was and am touched - in a very pleasant way! How caring and sweet of you! A little balm for the soul is very welcome at the moment. Thank you so much!



Madlen