Thread:EmmaRN/@comment-35319541-20180608075449/@comment-35564866-20180609134213

I’m sorry Lola. I’ve seen so many family members who feel they are prepared for the death of a loved one after long illnesses. But once the day arrives all of that preparation can sometimes crumble. We humans are creatures who mourn our losses, and that is as it should be.

Time that supposed great healer of all things does help, but feeling the grief is important. Learning how life fits now that the world is short that one person who you loved, well that’s different for everyone. It can change from day to day. But you know the day will come when you mostly remember the good and funny things that happened between you and your brother, and the grief won’t be so sharp.

I’m so glad you have support both in your real life and on the wiki. I hope it helps you.

I need to find the post, I cannot remember the date of your daughter’s wedding. And how long will you get to have your granddaughter with you? I’m assuming your daughter lives in the same state as you, but maybe not? So this may be a big adventure for your granddaughter!

I hope everything goes smoothly and you two have a wonderful time together. Those little ones can be great spiritual healers without even having any idea they are doing a thing 🤗

Take care of yourself, pop in when you are bored, sad or happy, pop in whenever you feel like it. I’ll try to keep an eye on your post too. Sending good thoughts of healing and health out into the Universe for you and your family.

Em