Thread:Chrisiow/@comment-34532495-20180521004354/@comment-35236548-20180522012646

I know i should stay out of this, but against my better judgment here goes.

Chris, I read Cathleen's message exactly as she intended. Maybe it's because I've been on a game wiki in the past, or cultural or gender...who knows, but I think you misunderstood. I read her message as exactly that -- she's at the 100 actual friend gift-giving limit (not counting any who have left the game and so keeping their avatars for hiring and charging purposes). She wants to see if any she has have not been active or reciprocal, and will then let you know...so you don't just appear on her list but receive nothing.

A misunderstanding. Please find a way to each other. (This happened to a friend I had named Boo. We knocked heads until we overcame language, eyc., and became the dearest of buddies.)

I am barging in because a dear colleague and friend list her son and father in a terrible hate shooting four years ago last month. Today would have been his 19th birthday, and another school shooting is devastating as she tries to combat hate with love. This is a rough day.

This is nowhere at all even close to those tragedies, but I don't want to see wiki friends I like and who are good people in a misunderstanding of words.

Forgive my intruding like this. I do mean well. Please assume positive intent on my part even if I have not expressed myself well.