Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-31028364-20180613033220/@comment-28829111-20180628022527

I had to google "snowflake" slang to see what that was! The definition I read I don't think fits you, Wanda. Merely stating that sometimes you feel overwhelmed with the advice is just from your heart. But as others have stated...no not worry. Probably 95% of the SN players out there play very basically. Some percentage of them have no in game friends and some who do have zero clue of how to help, whether sending a fixer/key will be useful, whether sending it will come out of inventory, etc... You are in the unique situation that you googled for help and found the Wiki so you "know more" of what the variety of players need/want including the serious ones. However YOU play is the best way to play and what is best for YOU. If I had to spend two hours Visiting and thinking about gifting each day I wouldn't. Visit the way that works for you. Gift when and how you can. Hope it is appreciated but do not worry about whether it is or it is not. A Wishlist is there for those whom hope to get a piece they need. Sometimes I feel anxious or guilty about whether I can send one then or not. Am I in the middle of playing and don't want to lose my talisman due to time running out or if I already sent my 10 gifts fo the day? Can I play the room for that item and win it for them? But then I sit back and figure the friends I have on my game seem to be okay/happy most of the time and haven't deleted me yet. I stop worrying and overthinking gifting, visits, which rooms to play and get back to enjoying the game. So you are not alone but listen to advice and "don't sweat the small things"....that's what I'm doing. I don't want to end up burned out again.