Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-34343471-20191023155003/@comment-37443679-20191023210919

You know what, Opal, I think anyone should think themselves lucky to have such a considerate friend as you. Don't worry about what they think/expect, or if you're clogging up their GBs, that's for them to sort out. You do what makes you feel happy in the game.

I can only speak for myself here, but I imagine most people would rather not be sent lovely CIs when they are too busy or offline so they can't check their GB. And I don't want to waste them so I watch out for game names with 'busy' or 'away' in them. I (usually!) empty my wish-list the evening before I'm busy or travelling.

But I don't expect my friends to not send passes if I'm busy., that would make a lot of extra work for them. I realise some passes may get lost that way, but that's the game.

As to fixers, I don't send them routinely because so many say 'no fixers', and I would rather not receive them, especially when a friend sends a dozen at a time. We use 25 ++ passes per play in premium rooms, but very few fixers. But I am happy to spend time on sending specific passes and fixers when requested. I occasionally put 'thread' or 'lollies' or some other pass in my name.

I sometimes have trouble understanding what friends are asking for, the abbreviations are a bit too obscure for my poor old brain to fathom LOL.