Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-36752587-20180831140904/@comment-2001:569:BD62:7B00:A0FC:645F:F79:24C7-20180831223055

somone asked if everyone will have the same missing items in a collection. It is my experience that this varies from player to player. At first if I was playing a room many times to get a specific item,I just assumed that my friends would  also have trouble getting that item. Then I fianlly put a few of those items on my WL and to my surprise I was almost flooded with that rare item. So sometimes I have multiple (into the teens) items that others need. So wish away someone may have surplus. There are a few that I think everyone has trouble finding. A few months ago I saw a post that some diligent player had compiled over the relative scaricty of various CIs.

As for etiquette, I agree that there are times when desperation leads players to request things like dragonflies or cotton. What drives me to drop friends are the oes that seem to just hit accept and  thank all and never even send free items. They may never even know if I sent a rare collection item, so I stop sending them anything. Sadly they may never know why I disappearred.