Thread:Alzhammer/@comment-37689663-20190806102356/@comment-37689663-20190815225723

Thank you so much for your thoughts, it warmed my heart. 🦋💙 aside from the money saving aspect, we get along very well (my daughter) and we are very close. I know that’s not the norm and I am thankful for it. To be able to see my grandson every day and to sit for hours watching him learn and loving on him is something I am eternally thankful for. My daughters friends have made many comments about our closeness and many tell them they wish they had a relationship like ours with their mother, which in many cases has made many of her friends call me mom and confide in me. My heart aches for the ones who cannot have conversations with their mothers...I couldn’t imagine making my daughter feel that way. I’ve experienced first hand some of these cold mothers and it breaks my heart that it seems like they weren’t able to break out of their own traumas to prevent passing on to their kids. My daughters not perfect and I certainly am not, but we have each other. I love how we cook together and talk each night. Your son doesn’t sound like he will become a burden and I know you will cherish every moment w the baby ☺️ I never got to know my grandmother 🙁 she died when I was young but even years before that she was very sick with Parkinson’s so the kids were never really allowed around her much...I see in retrospect how bad of a decision that was on my families part...smh. Hugs back ♥️🌹