Thread:Lilboops/@comment-35243530-20181203075919/@comment-35196587-20181204110524

Yes, she totally meant me, lol. I can’t even remember what the discussion topic was, but it got pretty heated, and some lady and I got into it. The lady’s “friend” was who sent the message. And I responded “was this meant to go to me?” and then we started chatting. Which led to phone calls, which led to traveling across the continent to meet, and the rest is history. Here’s another funny thing: from that same board, I met a lot of great people, and there’s a group of us that have all met in R/L, and we talk constantly. My family has met all of them, and my husband became good friends with them too!

I’m sorry you lost your friend. ❤️

Jealousy does seem to play in, for sure, though lord knows anyone’s motivations for anything.

I figured you would have seen the post telling me I’m nasty and people dont like me (it was tied to that thread that resulted in me be called a troll, and is on someone’s wall), but maybe she deleted it (Nope, still there). Trust me, it stung, which was her intent. I have a hard time letting things go, I get hurt very easily (bullying and abuse seem to do that to people), and I can easily begin obsessing over stuff like this (thanks anxiety disorder), so for my self-preservation, I have to do my best (and continually tell myself) to move on. So it serves me better to assume she was having a really bad day.

What I do notice here is people seem to get offended on behalf of other people. That thread is a prime example. I went to the dude’s wall, he responded, he wasn’t offended. But two others apparently were. /shrugs

Anyway, I ❤️ You.