Thread:Debwika2/@comment-35196587-20190103174223/@comment-2600:1700:38C0:E350:808A:6EE7:38F0:AB2B-20190103225110

My apologies for jumping into your conversation. I accidently clicked on the wiki activity and discovered the walls. I'm a dreaded anonymous FU poster though not one of the ones that either of you have ever complained about on the wiki. Please feel free to disregard but as an outside observer I think everyone is just bored, I know that is why I am posting on this subject. This game seems to attract older players ranging from 40s to post retirement. Some are Internet active and some are just getting used to this new medium. So combine boredom, different ways of using the net, and generational divide -you get drama.

Lilboops is an internet extrovert. She posts alot and posts to be helpful and social, She responds to every post and always has the last word because she's a net extrovert. Its all in good intent and she knows that its just a discussion board so if you don't like the post you can just ignore it. Its fun and ephemeral. She wants a community and positive attention-nothing wrong with this.

Debwiki is an internet introvert. She wants a closer circle of people she knows and wants positive appreciation for her efforts. She posts less frequently, wants posts to be helpful and wants to receive recognition for her posts-nothing wrong with this. Lillboops and new posters annoy her because she feels she gets lost among their posts.

Lilboops can't figure out what she did to Deb. She didn't do anything intentional but everytime Lilboops posts it makes Deb feel less needed and relevant. Each post annoys Deb so she'll eventually come back to bait Lilboops. Lilboops will take the bait because she's an extrovert. Lilboops will try to apologize and make Deb her friend but Deb just wants Lilboops to go away.

So this is basically a circle that will keep repeating-which you probably both see but just in case you didn't I wanted to share because well I'm bored today too.