Thread:Henrigirl/@comment-35094757-20180526173815/@comment-35094757-20180527141223

Well that told me didn't it? :-)

There. That's the ticket. Do it 'up front' and not sneak around pretending to be nice. Well done.

For my part, as I have said elsewhere.... you come here and it seems on the surface as nice. And then you get message after message asking you why you haven't sent stuff, or visited, etc, etc... And believe me (you obviously don't)... I do visit and I do send stuff out... and I found these constant messages from a few people a bit depressing and a bit offensive. If that's being self pitying, mea culpa... but from my point of view... there is an undercurrent here from a few people.... It's nice on the surface. The people seem to want to help lower ranked players. But underneath... they're constantly monitoring and making sure they are getting something back in return. Like the 'forum police'. There are some who are genuinely helpful and do loads, and I go out of my way to try and repay them. It's never as much as they have me (and that does make me feel guilty... but hopefully I will be able to repay them more as I level up), but I do as much as I can.

I do find some of your comments a tad hypocritical in that 2 or 3 times now you have chosen to interpret a jokey comment by me as something entirely different. I feel that says more about you than me. I also strongly believe this isn't the first time you've deleted me and you used an excuse the last time to re-add me. I'm sure we're both now wishing you'd told the truth. The feeling is entirely mutual... but I do thank you for finally being truthful.

Have a lovely life.