Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-38310889-20190805052025

Am I crazy to think that if you’ve met a player on the forum and you had some kind of interaction on here, the minimum you can do when you suspect that they are not playing anymore is to drop them a message? 💌

I know some of my friends found themselves in this situation with me and I have to say I admire those who sent that message. 💪💪💪

Of course it is easier to just click the x (which I have ignorantly also did in the past) but I look up to those that take the time to check before giving the chop.

I personally do not get offended, more puzzled than anything, when players remove me and I accept it as something they felt they had to do to feel better about something. 👹

BUT.

I am writing this post because not everyone here have the great friends that I have to teach them subtleties. 🔬

I have encountered, on multiple occasions in this forum, dire situations of people that have their feelings hurt badly when all they are trying is to do their best in being a good friend but life circumstances are in the way. 🤕🤤

I have learned that dropping a message or posting when you are unable to continue your usual play is important and if a heads up notice is possible - even better. Alas, I was also in a situation that I couldn’t do so.

Not giving notice of leave is NOT alone a reason to delete. ❌

Friendship is two sided. 🍬

So to all of you who didn’t know (and managed to keep reading till now :P) - I SHARE WITH YOU THE WISDOM OF MY FRIENDS. 🧠

I also didn’t think it was important to create a wikia account at first. I also didn’t think game “friends” care. I also didn’t think anybody gets hurt from a game. I also didn’t think it was important to share. I was wrong.

This is already too long so it’s time to apologize for the ‘English isn’t my first language’ and the nerve to try and say something I feel is important. I’ve added some colorful emoticons to make this feel less like a preaching. 🤪 Forgive me or I’ll understand if you remove me now. ☺️ 🚼🚺🚹♿️ 🍭🍡🍫🍩🍪🍦🍬🍬🍬🕹📀💿📀💿🔮🧬🧸🎀📍🔹🔶➿🤖👾 