Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-35267772-20180612071138/@comment-35508590-20180613001635

I have also asked myself this question and I have tried to sensitize these friends, same way like JPoco maybe consider to go.

It started when joining the wiki 5 weeks ago. I questioned my friends at that time and had been making TT since the Sakura event because I could not buy rubies from the bank with this update, and I found the wiki looking for new opportunities. Since I TT I have sent at least 30 fixers or passes daily, the result was no change. Almost all of my friends continued to send these "attentive" gifts. So I joined the wiki and shut out all these friends from my daily TT round. Instead, I sent them a yarn, resin or tar. The third of my FL, with which no or almost no interaction took place, I put out at the time. Still no change, after a few days I gave up, I had no desire to play this way.

When I soon started shipping more CIs and special fixers, some woke up slowly and others now go their separate ways. Almost all of the remaining SN-generated friends have now finally discovered the passports or higher fixers and send them and they regularly update their WL. Maybe they just needed a little time?

Among all these SN friends, I especialy notice three of them: The first has been with me since the first week and does not play daily. Today, for example, she sent me 4 random CIs and a tar. The second one occasionally sends CIs from my WL, but has fluff or similar fixers on her WL but mostly CIs. The third one seems to have discovered TT three days ago. He sent me 14 high-level fixers AND 2 yarn today.

Maybe we misunderstand our friends? https://seekers-notes.wikia.com/wiki/Fixers#comm-74188

Somewhere I have ever expressed the thought that even the smallest thank you is a thank you and who knows, maybe they are really happy about Fixers like yarn or the like?

Finally, I think it was harder for me to drop someone without telling him why. But it's a game, the more so if you've never communicated with these friends, so I design my FL the way I enjoy it. It seems rather more possible to change myself than others. 😉

Madlen