Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-40112086-20190718192310

So I have a few friends who only ever have the fixers you trade for in their wish list - cotton, dragonflies, ribbons, safety pins, etc.

To me, those things "cost." You don't win them from locations nor can you trade them for free. So I feel that by having those - and only those - in their list, it's kind of like asking for something that I have to buy.

I realize I'm probably being dumb about it but it rubs me a little wrong. I always try to have at least one or two free fixers in my wish list - even if I only have 3 or 4 items in it. I guess I want my friends to be able to gift me something that doesn't come from their inventory. If they choose to gift me a CI, I'm thrilled. And now I have a TT friend who sends so much I feel a little guilty. I'm going to have to give in and start TTing soon. I can feel it.

(And yes, I have sent the items I mentioned (well not cotton or dragonflies but the others) to friends who gift and visit. But sometimes when I'm scrolling through my list of wishes, it seems loaded with greedy requests.) 