Thread:RubySparkles/@comment-36016297-20180824204337/@comment-35525658-20180825042634

I'm happy that your son found love, being single myself I know that is not always the easiest thing to do in this world. I tend to feel the same way about people myself. The guy I have a secret crush on ATM the moment is White, but I never think of him as being a White person. I think of him in all the terms I like about him lol even though things will most likely not go anywhere between the two of us the race difference has nothing to do with it. And I'm not insulted at all by the fact that a friend has come to me to talk about race and their feelings about it. This world would be a better place if people could do that more often in an open and honest way.

I guess I'm just a little tired of people jumping to conclusions, dumping their emotional BS on me and expecting me to place their thoughts and feelings before and above my own so when someone takes swipes at me I always swipe back. People tend to get so caught up in their own feelings that many of them forget: I'm not their Mother and this is the real world. If someone decides to attack someone then they had best be prepared to get attacked back. I don't care if I get double or even triple teamed because in my eyes that only makes me seem stronger because they needed to circle the proverbial wagons to try and get a piece of me. I'm not a saint, I'm not Mother Theresa and I'm not whoever the heck they have torn me down in their mind to be. I'm me and I'm not going to stop being me. So the situation the other day was like oh no here we go again...I have to deal with another attack for just being me.