Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-35236548-20180514220436/@comment-35243530-20180516045429

I just lost my Dad last October Meichan, and as he had d cider to relocate Mum & himself (Mum has severe dementia) to a retirement facility shortly before his death, my sister and I had the “fun” task of sorting through the household effects last summer. I should add that Mum also has OCD, so there was an unbelievable amount of just old crap that she’d hung on to - records from a summer camp board she’d sat on 50 years before, pill bottles, old lipsticks... you name it! But I certainly feel your pain and empathize with what you’re going through - my sincere condolences!!

Seabiscuit- you’ve nothing to apologize for! If anyone is distraught because you missed them, let them unfriendly you because they’re not worth having as a friend! You’re always generous with your friends and you’re certainly not one of the people that I track when it comes to gifts and visiting. I periodically do track who is gifting and who is just thanking, but this is aimed at some players that I sometimes wonder if they’re playing at all and others that just seem to take without sending anything back, or just sending my favourite gift and yours - thread! I regularly try to weed through some players to see who could be replaced by my new requests, but all the folks from the forums are marked as favourites and receive a free pass on that. I know they’re people I wouldn’t consider replacing.

Just an aside here - is it possible to get to level 50 and have 50 to 100 friends and not realize that certain gifts are free to gift? Could this be why people send thread? They have tons of it and think they’re gifting it to others, thus saving more valuable gifts? Do they think that those of us who multi-gift access passes, etc are either crazy or have too much “wealth” of the better items(for lack of a better way of phrasing this)?

Thanks!

Mistress Kat