Thread:Gunsu/@comment-35319541-20180905021101/@comment-35319541-20180907034908

Hi Susanne,

Hey no prob I can get you some eyeglasses and flying times out in a bit, glad to help, and it will be my pleasure!!

I know what you mean about our kids having or not having kids of their own. The most we can hope for is that they are happyin both love and jobs, finanically secure and enjoy what they do with the partners they have chosen. you are right about that, times have definately changed in the aspect of children, some couples are just fine enjoying children of friends and family and have no desire to have one of their own. My cousin and her husband have been married for years and it was agreed from the first date, no children when married. Lucky for her she has lots of nieces and nephews she gets and got to spend a lot of time with, so she got her baby, children needs met by family, lol. She says she had never regretted the choice not to have children. Me, I could not imagine my life without the kids I have, and if I ever get desparate to have little ones around again, like several hours a day, I could volunteer at  a school or take in babysitting, but now that I have time with my Lily I don't have a need to have a lot of little ones around, nor do I have enough energy to do any babysitting, lol.

I haven't seen my first grandson since he was six and his mom moved him out of state. My second son is now married but chooses not to have children, and my youngest is living with his girlfriend, getting married next year, but waiting to have kids, they are both still young, she not even 21 yet and wants to get her nursing degree before raising a family. only my daughter's baby is right next door, so I get my  baby time with her!