Thread:ParisPC/@comment-44798646-20200128074842/@comment-44798646-20200128094315

Wow! That’s fascinating! Not boring at all! 30 is a great age! And 12... they still love you but the demons are coming...guard your baby!😁 my son isn’t typical though. Because he’s autistic, he doesn’t have that, I’ll kill you if you mess with my Moma thing most sons have. I was looking forward to having that to be honest☺️😍I kinda thought he did when he was younger but the older he gets, the more he regresses😪

Nursing is a wonderful field😍but very very demanding! And your specialty...oh my cantaloupe, even more so...I can only imagine the toll that would take...if you can afford to stay home...why wouldn’t you?!👏🏻👏🏻👍👍😁😁😍😍Of course! To actually be able to RAISE your own child? Of course, I’m sure there’s days you want to send him back...I do...but, nursing and sick babies and children, unfortunately, will be there forever. Your son will not be a child or teen forever. He will be grown in the blink of an eye! And even staying home, you’ll still lament, where did the time go? But at least you’ll know you filled him with love, values, morals and memories of his Moma, not somebody else. He will carry those with him forever.

As awful as my husband was/is, he supported my staying home with my son. In the beginning, it was a choice. Then it became necessity because of his needs and taking care of his parents. I couldn’t work and care for them. Then it was necessary because of all that and my health. My body just gave out but nobody understands that, not that they’d care if they could. My point was, at least he supported that i stay home and I’ve heard my son from time to time say something to other kids, even his Xbox “friends” the only friends he has right now😪, what I’d said to him(though I’ll NEVER get credit)...some tidbit, some lesson, just something. Even if he proclaimed that I was dumb, he still got it and taught the very same thing to his friend.

These things they get from us being with them full time can not be over valued. Not to say that working moms don’t love their kids or anything like that..I’m not talking about that at all, only the benefit of having mom at home, or dad, if he’s actually “there”. There’s some dads that are excellent! My cousin is a lawyer and her husband was in non profit so he stayed home. He’s an excellent parent!

Your home and neighborhood sound absolutely perfect!! Homes from the 40’s are great! That time, after the war, things were built so nice, hopeful, big and grand...I love big trees! They’re cutting them all down here...PROGRESS 🤬🤬

That sounds funny, your flags and theirs but, in Texas, from what I’ve heard..I’ve never been...there’s 1 flag most of you probably have in common, the US flag, so, there’s probably more that unites than divides😍😍, hopefully..those Texans CAN be set in their ways🤣🤣I’m just joking, we ALL can! I have cousins in Texas. I have cousins everywhere 😁

So, do they come over to the party? Or do they look disapprovingly down their noses? Is it THAT kind of historic town? Like old $ vs new$ kind of bs? I think we might have some of that here but I wouldn’t really know because I only have monopoly $...but...I can have as much as I want and I can make more on the printer if I need it, and it’s pretty colors, not just boring green!🤣🤣🤣

Well, you did not bore me one single bit my dear but I think your computer will be suffering overload and overheat so, I will go. I just wanted to respond because, you know, I’m sutherrrrrn and we cannnt be rooood 😄😄, it’s roood😄. I poke at being southern but it’s just poking, I’m not ashamed, not mostly...there’s a couple of things the white mom of a biracial, Amerasian child has issues with...but, mostly 😍😍😍

Nitey nite💜💜💜L