Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-38112387-20190424195316/@comment-38946466-20190424213217

I feel for you.

On my list, around a half visit - a very wonderful and generous half I have to say :) I mostly found that half here, the ones that don't visit/give were mostly from the game.

The half that doesn't visit usually sends thank yous regularly, they don't visit or send gifts. They do open event rooms and energy fluctuates so I know they play.

I am trying a different approach - I starred regulars and check their WLs regularly and the rest just get the gifts I send to all. I decided to stop sending them CIs.

I realize it is not much of a punishment since they still get visits and passes, will purge the list after holidays are finished in case they were away. I started purging/replenishing slowly by removing the ones that don't play.

I don't want friends who are only takers and not givers.

I have a suggestion for you: with only 50, you have 50 more places to fill in, you can use these boards and if you plan to visit 50, star the ones that are regular and vist them, send CIs and gifts etc and use the rest for hiring only.