Thread:Lilboops/@comment-37096511-20181206045413/@comment-35508590-20181206212804

Hello wiki and game friends,

like Chuchu, I prefer to stay away from such discussions, especially on a different wall. But I think I have heard a part of the incident, so I'm here.

First of all, Chuchu, thank you for being here to make peace. 💖

Lilboops, there was a thread  where you wanted to help one of your friends. Let's passed over the skirmish, in which I and other wiki members apparently pursued different strategies to counter an FU that identified itself as a "file manipulator". Your friend openly admitted to be very interested. No problem until then. FU did not respond to her interest and your girlfriend started a new theme in this thread. I answered her, as I would have answered in any other thread, that it might be more helpful for her and others to start a separate thread. And then started really only that, which has brought the barrel to overflowing. (I went to bed and was gone.) She responded very mean, ugly, reckless and selfish, and others expressed their displeasure with it while you trying to stand by her side, also later with the wiki admin.

Lil, I understand you somehow, I also wish harmony. In my training, I wys a class representative, I even defended a classmate who announced a run of amok at the exam, not to the delight of everyone else. (See the background, the social prognosis in case of exclusion, possible avoidance strategies and reparations, phuuuh, that was not easy, today he is a colleague of mine.)

OK, let's assume that your friend really just had a very bad day ... Lil, I hope you also reprimanded your girlfriend also because you sacrificed yourself for her. I did not see that and no corresponding reaction from her, I'm sorry, I mean, it was rather the total opposite, something like f ... y ... (Sorry.) Well, what can I say, your girlfriend did not reach me, but I would have had no desire to waste more words on your friend even in daylight. It was redundant on both sides. But I was so happy and thankful that some friends stood by my side. 😊

Please do not get me wrong now. Yes, you seem enlightened and communicative to me, but this disregard on of others' sensations can also be hurtful, and sometimes seems biased or unbalanced. At the same time, I have to admit that some reactions may have strengthened your attitude (and vice versa).

This Randy is a theme in his own right, he did not want any personal contact, but he definitely did not get poorer, LOL. I swear it was the opposite, even though she did not reach her goal, even though she was quite purposeful.

The local FU here, I suggest we ignore it, except Deb, but that's another thing, just for you @Deb. And yes, I would ... well, you know. 😥

Anyway, Lil, I'm really happy with your conciliatory words at the end. You are room-engaging and your humor is sometimes a border walk. No, it does not always make fun for everyone, consider the background and undercurrents (I was not too enthusiastic about your performance in the said post) but I think you mean well. So thank yoo, let's try to get along well and I hope we'll find fun together in the future. ☺

Madlen