Thread:Bea58/@comment-35196587-20190115024724/@comment-35148884-20190115033010

Why? I saw that you did that with Chase and it hasn't seemed to help. Far from it, given your treatment of her today. The fact that you seem to hold her personally responsible for what 2 of her friends (and mine) have said to you, seems very bizarre to me.

You say you want to leave this behind, yet you won't even allow her to have a convo with the admin, and believe me, if it was your name in that thread, it would have been poofed, no discussion. I can't stand your friend from the IOW, but I have never held you responsible for his behaviour. The only time I've said anything untoward to you was when I called you "friendly" because you were defending somebody who told my friend L to get her nose out of her thong. That is the difference. I don't condone some of my friend's actions, but I don't defend them either.

In the very beginning of your arriving here I was wary because of Ruby. Of course you only had her side of the story... Then when I saw that you were going to be fair and well, more balanced, I decided you were okay. And yes, I could see that you were being picked on and bullied. But not by me. And not by Chase.

And then, never taking any responsibility for how you might have contributed to an initial confrontation. Like with the gray haired avatar deal. I know all your friends say you can do no wrong, but I saw where you told Jipo (who was the FU that wanted to close it) "if you are now finding your thread traumatic"... I read that and thought, wow. How smug. It's all in the tone and yours is not always pitch perfect. Nobody's is, but at least acknowledge why somebody might be upset with you.

The last thing I want to say is that you are under some paranoid impression that it's the same 3, 4, whatever, people that are harassing you. As I said before more gently, that is hogwash. We are not all connected, planning how to get Lilboops next time. I don't even talk to anybody other than right here only. And I don't even know most of the people who have bothered you. Even the FUs, who have taken both sides but mostly yours are likely just random people with a grudge from what could be years ago, so why include them in your conspiracy theories?

I guess I've modified my opinion of you yet again. And I really can't see that changing anytime soon. It's dinnertime, well past. See ya around.